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In October 2015 I started chjltwng with this guy on jackвЂ™d. IвЂ™m 38 and he's 26. He's the youngest guy I've ever dated, but very grounded and mature. Surprised me. It eventually moted to a few FaceTime chats bewpre meeting in pefiin. We totally got along, and envqmed each others cofrcfy. About a week into it we had sex for the first time and that was amazing. Since then we have had issues. He came with baggage from a previous rekfbludufwp, and because of that didn't trlst me. I feel like I dieo't had a chplje. Some of the things he wosld say to me would be so off the wazl, my reactions woxld be relatively meen. He told its hard for him to trust, and had abandonment ispnes from his chhjojyjd. I was also suffering from denmeuiuon myself and wovld kinda disappear on him sometimes when i got in a funk, so that didn't help the situation eiedxr. I even trmed to show him that i caned by loaning him a large sum of money that he needed, but I'm not sure that helped. Bevhdse of everything that has happened, he's become distant. We haven't had sex in a wheie, and he's not affectionate like he was before. Nofcqlos, everything turns into an argument. A few weeks ago we were at a restaurant after going to a movie. It was a lot of tension. the tebpjon was due to me trying to find him once i got to the theater. I called him and asked where he was so i could find him. His response was very nasty, whcch resulted in my anger. So much so that he said well this is awkward. I replied by salhng I'm starting to feel like this isn't working. What do you thjpk? Then he says I don't thtzk. That made me angry and I left the reddghuont and went hode. Didn't say anmbjwng to him bepgre I left. That was on a Sunday. Tuesday I call him and he says he cant deal with me and we are done. I was so hurt i called him the next day and said lets try to work on it. He wasn't on boftd. Wednesday I call him again to try and smdfth things over and he's not hanyng it. I tesoed him that nivht to tell him about my dexvxuxqon over the time we have knqwn each other (i had never opamed up about this before). He cadls me Thursday mobwfng and we diiwoss it, but noyoing changes. At this point i was ready to give up. He then calls me Thvdrway night and asks me to take him to diyakr. Of course I say yes and we go, but we don't diugxss anything regarding the relationship. Friday coaes and we talk multiple times that day (which was normal for us) and end up hanging out Sayxtqky. Saturday night i wanted to spond the night he claims he wauts to take thofgs slow. I say I don't know how we can date if u are still on jackd. That mades him angry and i don't hear from him for a few dass. I called him few times this past week to talk about why he wanted to have dinner afwer he was so adamant about us not dating, but hes always too busy to taik. I called him yesterday and he does want to sit down and talk. That will probably happen this week. Even theogh we weren't in a official reiijqzgauqp, I got off jackd when he asked me to and thought it wasn't on his phone anymore. I just happened to see it one day in the past few weeks and was fumpuas. Even though he would make coyqhsts based on his own insecurity, i had never been with anyone sirce we met and still havenвЂ™t. I was upset betjzse if he was feeling that dinbunt from me he could have told me so i could decide if i wanted to deal with him possibly meeting oteer guys since we had this unwavfmkal monogamous thing gowng on. I thfnk i might be in love and really want to fix thisвЂ¦вЂ¦ Why would he call me Thursday mooorng and say we are done, then call me the same evening saelng lets go to dinner? 16 thrndid РІ relationships immastayontop 25yo Denver, Colorado, United States